Mom, when did we become friends?

There are some moments in my psychotherapist work that are etched in my memory for a long time and still is warming my heart. One such example is when it is possible to help a mother distinguish her traumas and projections from her child. Mom, when did you and I become friends? Well, when you were born! No, not then, sometime later, sometime recently! As a result, the relationship between mother and child becomes easier and simpler. They succeed because mom is able to recognize and control shadow projections!