Mother's and father's eyes

A topic that is so relevant in working with parents. Yes, it is really important what the child sees, looking into the eyes of the mother and also the father. It essentially determines his entire inner and outer reality, his entire future life - Ego strength/weakness and or inflation. It determines a person's fate, including psychosomatic symptoms. Because as a result of interactions with the mother as the person of primary care, complexes are formed. Be that as it may, no one can avoid the presence of complexes at birth. They will occur anyway. Complexes, in turn, affect the presence of archetypes and their dominant poles in the human psyche. With the dominance of the positive mother complex in the human psyche, the archetype of the mother will be infinitely giving and at the same time limiting - a person will expect self-setting tables and rivers of milk by the banks of the cistern everywhere. With a dominant negative mother complex in the human psyche, the mother archetype will also be at the negative pole. Ego will conditionally be under the power of the goddess Kali, where death and destruction will often reign, the future will not promise anything happy, but when problems appear, Ego will be ready for them and the person will say, I already knew that nothing good awaits me. A person will quickly learn to subordinate his needs to the interests of other people.

I use these two objects today to illustrate such a very important - Ego-forming circumstance, which has such a great influence in a person's life. Therefore, I invite you to stay away from the device in your hands and look at your child. Even if he himself is busy with something, drawing, singing or playing on the playground. For a child, both small and big, but especially a small one, the look of parents' eyes and loving attention are important. It can be compared to emotional food. Because everyone knows that with good parents, the child is fed, well fed, provided with physical activities and walks in the fresh air, but also emotional "food" is just as important. The easiest way to feed a child emotionally is to see and hear him. If it is missing, then the child ends up in emotional starvation, which results in emotional freezing. A child feels loved and safe if a parent notices and supports the child's need for emotional dependence and attachment. Therefore, it is enough if a parent sees, hears, looks and from time to time smiles with love and joy. May everyone have an emotionally warm and smiling spring!